An anniversary is a special milestone in any relationship, but your first wedding anniversary is often one of the most memorable. Your first year as a married couple will become the first chapters in the story of your life together. It is often filled with firsts and other momentous occasions and should be celebrated in a way that highlights all you accomplished.
Traditionally, the first anniversary is called the paper anniversary. No one is quite sure of the symbolism, but there are several theories:
– Represents the blank page
– Reminds us of the fragile and modest beginnings of marriage
– Symbolizes writing your future together
– Symbolizes the true interweaving of your lives
– Is a reminder of natural growth
Your first wedding anniversary is a good time to look back on the past year and your time together. One way to do this is to reflect on your love story and create something that captures you and your relationship. If you wish to abide by the traditional paper anniversary gift, consider committing your story to words and pictures and create a lovely book.
Writing a book may sound a bit laborious for many of people. If you are not someone who enjoys writing or feel you wouldn’t do your story justice, you can always commission an author to write it for you. You can find truly talented freelance writers online who specialize in these kinds of projects, to artfully construct a story based on your most important memories. When choosing a writer, it is important to pick someone who can capture your tone and personality to bring your story to life.
If you can’t wait for the “romance novel” version of your first year of marriage, try creating a memory book. You can combine your favorite pictures with your favorite stories to create a gift of paper that will be treasured long past your anniversary date.
Simply ask your partner to write about their five most memorable moments over the past year. Then take their words, add your five favorite memories, select pictures and use Lulu’s photo book templates to design your anniversary book. The end result will be a custom-made, unique and sentimental gift for your spouse.
Ultimately, your first wedding anniversary should be celebrated in a way you will remember forever. Creating a book about your journey as a couple is a thoughtful and lasting way to celebrate your love and look back on all that you’ve created – so far.
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