I am impressed by a number of features of the Frank lectures:

The lecture on "Women, Jerks and Relationships: How to Steal Her Away from the Jerk" opened with an analysis demonstrating how the jerk uses violence, intimidation and insults to meet a woman's emotional needs. There are two types of women who respond to the warped techniques of the jerk: the high quality woman who is snagged by the jerks initial impression of being an alpha male, and the low quality woman whose negative image of men leave them prey to the machinations of the men who embody their image.

The non-jerk seducer-in-training was also warned of the dangers of his own emotional needs lest he develop a savior-complex, or, because of his need for feminine appreciation, become attached to a woman who will abuse him.

Finally, the practical techniques on how to steal her away were explained through the woman's emotional needs. You can turn the Jerk and his girl against each other using both of their individual emotional needs. One mistake the would-be-victor makes is in failing to perform when the time comes--eg., in the face of any self-imposed ideas of 'respecting her' after the jerk is gone. Also, for emotional need number 7, you might have to confront the jerk yourself physically; the low value woman wants this because she is a victim to such manipulation, but the quality woman will not want to see a fight.

Frank is always well-prepared, and, eventhough he speaks from the moment, the talks have proven to be logically organized in successive topics which flow together. Also, each evening's topic is analysed according to the emotional needs of women so that you not only receive practical techniques and advice, but also the theoretical foundations which challenge feminism and other isms which have left so many men unconsciously emasculated and baffled for a solution for their needs. Frank also provides answers to questions which shed light on the state of the inquirer's relationship from both male and female needs as well as practical steps in treating the problem. You receive not only applicable teaching unavailable from the academic relationshipologists and the drivel from pop media, but also commentary on various techniques suggested by other seduction gurus

-BoneHead in Toronto

Just got home from today's lecture and wanted to say it was extremely informative.

Despite the fact that I have no issues dealing with girls who are dating abusive 'jerk' boyfriends, I still learned a lot of valuable information at this lecture - information that I believe I can start applying right away. Having studied Frank's books and hearing him further elaborate and go into detail on those concepts, having a chance to ask any questions that arise on-the-fly, and having the chance to take notes as Frank speaks - all these things add incredible value to the lectures.

I honestly feel like it's a comprehensive live lecture when other gurus are charging hundreds of dollars for just books. Franks perspective, relationship management, is also something unique that takes a big picture account of things that most other gurus simply don't delve into.

Last thing I want to point out was that I felt a bit of apprehension before I attended the first lecture - and frankly I didn't want this part of my life to collide with other parts of my life - except that turned out to be yet another irrational fear I built up inside my head. Everyone who attends has that common interest of bettering their lives in this area and it is a completely non-judgmental environment.

For those of you guys who are not attending, you are seriously missing out. The lecture environment is perfect.
-Brandon in Toronto

During the lecture, I had so many past memories being recalled. EVERYTHING MADE SENSE NOW!!!
I remember there was this one Asian girl in our high school, and she was a close friend to me (I was emotional cookie man for this little darling too >.>" ) she gets high 80's on all her tests, she had a job back then (it was a big deal), cute, and social. You couldn't ask for anything better as a high school kid. She dated this high school dropout who was affiliated with this gang uptown and she stopped coming to school, stopped doing her assignments, and dropped out herself.

THIS ALL MAKES SENSE NOW!!!

I still remember the conversation over the phone I had her, asking why did she date/sleep with a guy like that. She stayed quiet....NOW I KNOW!!!! but knowing isn't enough, back in the days when I wanted a relationship with her, knowing wouldn't cut it...

Frank talked about strategies and tactics to win over the girl from jerks... wow...wooow..

On not being a jerk, this seminar not only showed me the whys and how to win over women dating/dated jerks, but also helped my self-identification issues. I can confidently say that I"m not a jerk!!! this doesn't sound much but this deduction helped me in becoming the person I want to be, and to help me identify who I DON'T want to be. I don't doubt or 2nd guess if I"m being a jerk or not anymore. If only you guys were in my head, this does much more wonders than you guys can imagine.

To realize a WHOLE BUNCH of women from your past personal experience and why they dated/slept with the jerk and not with you? to understand if they are even worth taking from the jerk? PRICELESS
-Hayami in Toronto

Although this was a lecture on women and their relationships with jerks, I personally found the distinction made between high and low quality women to be the most valuable lesson in this session.

As someone who has been involved with a few women who I had considered damaged, I've been in the process of refining my screening process to prevent myself from getting into situations with these types of women again and the distinction made by Frank in this session has provided a lot of great ways to spot possible deal-breaking dysfunctions in a woman early on. I particularly liked the idea of a high quality women being partially, if not entirely, defined as a woman who is able to use her intelligence to avoid and protect herself from potentially damaging situations. Too much material in the world of pick up, seduction and relationship management depict women as mindless robots who are forced into acting a certain way when the man displays a certain set of behaviors, so the distinction made by Frank was refreshing almost in every way. In my opinion, the definition of a high quality woman in this context basically boils down to one of my favorite Frankisms: "Feel the emotion. Control the behavior." In this case, a high quality woman feels attracted to the jerk, but controls her actions by staying away from him. Overall, another great lecture! _ Gillette in Toronto

As someone who used to wing, albeit unconsciously and unwittingly, for a jerk, Frank's lecture explained and clarified many things that previously mystified me, especially the manner in which a jerk addresses a woman's Emotional Needs. Back then, I couldn't understand why chicks would stick around or keep coming back for more from the aforementioned jerk, and keep getting more and more damaged. One of them even suffered a mental breakdown and had to be committed into a mental asylum; last I heard, she's been there for the last three years.

The most valuable points covered in this lecture, however, are the distinction between a high-value woman and a low-value one, the ways in which a non-jerk man can expect to get tested from either of them, and how to pass those tests and address the relevant emotional needs. This also ties in with one of Frank's maxims: that it is how she treats you that matters the most, and not how she looks, how much she makes, how good the sex is, and how much social value she offers. This is something that I'm still struggling to get through to my thick skull, because hot chicks drive me nuts, no matter how fucked up they are, and I have to make a sustained effort to even notice, let alone be polite to, mediocre-looking chicks, no matter how nice/intelligent/whatever they are. Frank also reiterated another of his aphorisms: that a man can/should feel the emotion, but always control the behavior, because a man does not have the same emotional luxury a woman is entitled to.

Towards the end, Frank also talked about tactics on stealing girls away from jerks and to either keep them in a sustained healthy relationship, or to just use them for a session of sex. According to him, girls must back-rationalize and defend whomever they've had sex with, and so if you've had sex with and given a sexual memory to a girl, the greater your chances of success. This is also why a man or 'nice guy' who decides to wait to have sex because he wants to respect a girl's 'boundaries' and whatnot is often left wondering why he can never date her instead. Another of Frank's aphorisms apply here: When it is time to f**k, a man MUST f**k. - Shura in Toronto