The cycle of Egocentrism is like a dog chasing his tail, you never get out of the vicious pattern...I feel that letting ourselves have feelings of our pain and our wounding is an important part of our healing from our childhood abuse...There is much more to be said about this cycle of Egocentrism...It is a process of hard work and wanting to move foreward in our recovery...The book can guild us through with lots of hard work and even though we go foreward, we will even fall back from time to time, but like old habbit's we will be able to conqure this drama triangle of struggles... lots of work is requried to get out of this drama triangle, "but not impossible"!!! It feels like it is not possible at times, but with lots of hard work, staying in therpy, in my case, with Melody Brooke, we will soon be able to work on that wall of grief, that some see as a terrior..."And it is hard", sometimes it may seem impossible...To me it's like when God opened the Red Sea to let the Israelites cross through to escape from the Egyptians...I'm not saying this book is a mircle, but with a lot of work and changing the habbit's of this cycle that has been our way of life, we can cross over that wall of grief...I would encourage each one that buys this book, study, and if possible stay in therpy, and as I've been told, Melody is going to introduce a work book to help us with her book, "Cycles of the Heart"...
I am so gratefull for this hard work Melody has put into writing this book...This book has helped me more than any self help book I've ever worked with...And I feel as though I've been so fortunate to have her as my therpies...She has put her heart and soul and hard work in this book...As a therpiest she puts 150 percent in her work, like this book, Cycles of the Heart, she has put more...My God has Blessed me many times over for my hard work with Melody...Knowing this book that can help us move foreward in such an imperfect system of things, due to our first parent's Adam and Eve, We can continue doing the best we can...I'm proud to be a clint of Melody's, and a part of this book, and I have'nt been proud of much in my life, but this imformation from "Cycles of the Heart" book will help me take back my life one step at a time, but not impossibe...I'm looking foreward to the work book... from this book I see myself whole again, soon as a person that God and others will give me self worth...I can see myself on my way to recovery from this vicious pattern... "my way to recovery from this vicious pattern of Egocentrism". "We will survive"!!!Thank you Melody for all your hard work as a therpiest and writing this book...I can only let my tears express my graditude at this time...You have been through thick and thin with us and many more, and then to write this book is far and beyoud what you will do to help all to be the best we can as we get through Saten's systems of things...Were always going to have something to work on, but nothing is immpossible with God's word and the only therpiest I've ever known or worked with...with Much respect, and appreciation for all your hard work...Nancy Stewart...