Frank Inner Game CD # 13 of 13 The Emotional Needs Of Men 101 Introduction

by Frank B Kermit

Publisher: Frank B Kermit
Copyright: © 2008 Frank B Kermit Standard Copyright License
Language: English
Country: Canada

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This CD covers pages 52-57 of the book I'm A Man, That's My Job: The Philosophy of a Seducer. What are the Emotional Needs of Men and the Seduction Philosophies that make up Frank B Kermit’s Ally-Enemy Theory? How are Men’s emotional needs different from women’s? Why it is that a man who can address all of her emotional needs might still end up in a failing relationship because she can NOT address his ends? How can you be sure that the end of a relationship is NOT ALL YOUR FAULT? If you were curious about this Seduction Philosophy and wanted an Introduction, then consider this CD a primer: Men’s Emotional Needs 101 Get 400$ off with proof of purchase of ALL 13 Inner Game CDs on one 10 hour pre-booked package one-on-one Frank Consultation. This CD is part of the Frank Inner Game seminar recorded March 28-30, 2008 in Toronto. (C) Frank B Kermit 2008. All RIghts Reserved.


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A review by Artisan of the original seminar
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23 May 2008
My review might be somewhat bias being part of the seminar but regardless of my involvement I think and feel this was one seriously outstanding seminar. The amount of self-introspection and the level of understand of Frank and his guests meant that for the man willing to push himself this program was as close to product that ensures change as you can get.
From a Pick Up Artist's perspective Frank's emotional needs model has been without a doubt the most helpful single tool in understanding what is really happening in a relationship, an interaction and in a women's head at any point and getting Micheal the Dating Wizard to bring his take to it only made it more evident why a seducer-in-training shouldn't be without this knowledge. Really, no man should be without with this knowledge on some level and if you can't get into and maintain a relationship, you don't have it, and you need it.
As a man, the inner game work in here addressed a need for change work that I knew I had to do but didn't know really how to go about doing and I was skeptical anyone could really help me with. So, one of my biggest lessons in this is, I had the power all along!
The cemetery walk, the lecture by Johnny Soporno, the stories, the rules of relationships and having Frank Brother Kermit take you threw the inner game exercises from the book make this a resource well worth the time it takes to use properly. -Artisan in Toronto
A review by Spacy of the original seminar
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23 May 2008
Unique - Haven't seen anyone else offer a product like this that forces you to ask yourself so many questions.
Helps with longer term relationships and how to manage them - not just pickup - something that many Pick Up Artist's don't really focus on.
My favorite part were the exercises that make you peel back the layers of an onion and decide who you are, what you really want, need etc. Cost :-)

It was almost information overload - so much to take in and think about I'll be reviewing weeks. Of course he is packing many years of knowledge and experience into 3 days....Frank has tons of knowledge and seems to take a personal interest in his students (clients). He's a genuine guy.

thnx Frank,

I wish I knew all this 10 years ago

-Spacy
A review by Gogland of the original seminar
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23 May 2008
Frank's seminar was one of the most intense and difficult seminars I have ever sat through.

I learned so much from this seminar, and had a lot of my questions on relationships answered. I found out why I was punishing myself, I found out about what I really want. I was able to put a more human aspect on everything in seduction. Frank's work is so essential in understanding the mindset of a woman, and even more so for understanding the obligation of being male.

Frank's seminar left me with more questions about everything... questions I should've been asking about everything, but didn't even realize I needed to ask myself until then. Have all my problems been solved? Hell no, but at least I understand what my problems are, and I have a better sense on how to solve them.

It takes a lot of work to reach your goals, and Frank's seminar manages to shortens the amount of time you'll be spending on this improvement work.

-Gogland in Toronto
A review from Q.R of the original seminar
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23 May 2008
The ladder theory, Barbara D and other bringers of male hopelessness can finally go to hell - here comes Frank B. Kermit to make things right. In an unrelenting 12-hour 3-day weekend seminar called Inner Game, Frank goes beyond the feat of keeping the attention of his audience hour after hour and takes his group on one heck of a journey through their deep psychological woods - a journey one returns from with unexpected and perspective-changing revelations about themselves and the ladies they thought they understood.

In a delivery that ranges from patient discourse to candid confessions to fiery animated fits, Mr. Kermit fights typical pre-conceived notions about love and the Alpha male and brings uncanny sense to even the most seemingly nonsensical and frustrating situations that happen in dealings with women. And yes, he helps to direct you to solutions - your own solutions.

His guests on the second day brought their own cheerful views and were a welcome contrast to Frank's hard-hitting, oh-so-Italian tough love, yet the underlying messages from all the speakers were consistent, disarmingly simple and empowering. From Johnny Soporno, Michael The Dating Wizard, Christiano Jr. and Frank himself, there was as much emphasis on becoming a great catch as there was on the art of catching, and so what would have been viewed superficially as "stud camp for dorks" became group therapy for those who seek to become better men with better lives.

As for getting good value out of the seminar, it's hard to argue with a group of gentlemen coming back with their long-standing issues newly resolved, and their hearts filled with new hope for finding love. -Q.R.
A review by Fab of the original seminar
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23 May 2008
I can't say enough about Franks seminar on inner game and Franks work in general. I always had great respect for Frank, but now I think he's pure genius. I learned so much about my relationships with women, but beyond that I learned a lot about myself. A lot of the exercises helped me to learn about who I am as a man, and what my role really is. This weekend and Franks work in general has shed a lot of light on why I wound up in so many dysfunctional relationships. I feel I have a real chance at finding what I want and more importantly knowing what I want.

The guest speakers were amazing as well. Surprisingly they all spoke of love for women and love for ones self, which I found refreshing. The underlying theme of loving yourself and harnessing your own self esteem was great.

I already feel as though I'm a better man, just days after the seminar. I already feel I have more to offer women in general. I gained a lot of enthusiasm from the weekend seminar and look forward to more from Frank.

Frank has learned this stuff from his own pain and it worked for him. He is the first to admit there is no magic pill, but I have found a truth in each of his theories that is directly applicable to both past and present relationships. I am blown away by Franks insights over and over again. by FAB in Toronto
A review by Hercules of the original seminar
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23 May 2008
A MALE CD book on relationships? Has the world gone mad ?
Why should I read this stuff when I can watch TV instead?

If this is you talking, MAYBE you should continue reading ...

For those married guys out there, is your marriage REALLY happy? How do you know your wife isn't cheating on you ? Better yet ... why? Are you SURE your child(ren) is (are) REALLY yours? Ever wished the wedding ring came with an instructions manual? Don't you feel things could be even better but you don't know what questions to ask yourself ?

For the single guy, have you not figured out yet what women NEED? You've probably successfully dated from pick-up, or from friends, but never quite understood what was going on in the woman's head? Why "things didn't work out" like they could have have a while... Or again, does the idea of "getting tied up" make you feel UNCOMFORTABLE, not knowing if you could've gotten "better"...Do you KNOW What do you REALLY WANT in a woman, apart from breasts?

And if you're coming out of a divorce, are you asking yourself how things ever got so bad ? How did you get into this in the first place ? Is everything over between you and all the women out there ..... CAN you get another chance? Is it really over between you and women ?

Frank B. Kermit teaches guys the kind of stuff we should have been taught in the first place way back in high school: what REALLY makes women and men different ... from the inside ! Not only will Frank teach you what women NEED, but he'll also lift the veil on the menu of what your manhood requires to properly "blossom". And if what you think sounds like something that rhymes with "your woman MUST RESPECT YOU" and "control the drama before it controls you", you're catching on.... So what do you do when you've exhausted your routine lines, the cocky funny stuff and gone through your palm reading patterns ? What's next ? What's the next level of dating ? It's called building a successful relationship. And this is what Frank B. Kermit teaches. The NEXT level.

Who's in charge here?

- Hercules, Montreal
A review by Ken of the original seminar
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23 May 2008
The purpose for me to attend this seminar was to get the inner game parts of myself handled. In Frank's words, inner game is "the elimination of hypocrisies." I've done a lot of inner game work in my development, but I have to say that this was the most complete inner game program that I've ever been exposed to. However, with that said, the learnings to be taken from this program are based not in the material that was covered but rather, the real value of this program is the fact that it teaches you HOW to think about the world of relationships.

The fact is, every program out there teaches material that is marketed as the next great thing, but here is a program that bypasses the material because it teaches the HOW. It seems as though everyone acknowledges that inner game is important and very few people ever speak of HOW one builds proper inner game. Enter Frank B Kermit.

After spending 36 hours being bombarded with material that was clear and concise and being pushed to think for myself, I can feel that I've emerged from the experience as a changed person. It's as though the pieces of my being have finally been fitted together to form a whole person. I feel clear-minded and more focused than I have ever been and I've started to see the resulting change in my reality. It has only been a few days since the end of the seminar and already I've begun to reap the rewards of the clearer vibe that I am now putting out.

The value in this program far exceeds the cost of it.

Thank for a life-changing experience, Frank.

-Ken in Toronto
A review by Romeo of the original seminar
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23 May 2008
For those of you who are thinking about whether to get the CD set of the frank inner game seminar you don't have to think about it anymore. in one word it is WELL WORTH IT- OK! that wasn't one word but you get the idea. Now people say that about a lot of products so what makes me think so highly of this one in particular. Simple I WAS THERE. I was there for the whole 30hrs of the frank inner game seminar and i wouldn't have asked for an better seminar on inner game. it was the best inner game seminar out there- BAR NONE.

Thats all well and good but what did i actually learn that make is so great! Here is the run down.

The first day was about self introspection. To figure out the why of the why of the why of the why. On an individualized level we found out why we are the way we are through a lot of self introspection exercises. i found myself regressing to events in my childhood that affected my current state when it comes to relationships. confronting those issues allowed me to get over some major sticking points that I currently have. it was so profound that when i woke up the next morning I was still having revelations in THE SHOWER! By the end of the day a new and improved form of us was beginning to surface a form that knew both where we came from and what we wanted for ourselves for the future. a form that was both accepting of out past and our limitations but also hopeful about the future and what it has to offer. REFRESHING! the cemetery walk certainly put things in perspective!

I also want to mention DO THE EXERCISES. they might seem mundane and trivial but they are POWERFUL and INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT for your development. DO NOT TAKE THIS PART OF THE SEMINAR LIGHTLY. OK............ DEAL! :)

The second day was about guest speakers. Johnny Soporno was his calm, self assured self and he espoused some amazing insights about social constructs and women and sexuality. Having built a great lifestyle with many beautiful women for himself he certainly was the right guys to speak about this topics. Christiano was his usual passionate and dominant Brazilian self and he expanded on his ideas of how to be a passionate being and how to be dominant without being domineering. AWESOME STUFF.

The last day was about women and how to figure them out. Frank talked about the emotional needs of both men and women and expounded on the rules of relationships. this alone is worth the whole seminar. It was packed with great ideas that anyone can use right away. I especially like rule of relationship #10 WE WERE BORN TO HAVE SEX. I will certainly be making use of that idea... a lot! Speaking of SEX! I just confirmed a date with this cute girl from way back. I sure am glad I took this seminar because I will be going in all guns blazing and it will be blast. -ROMEO of Toronto
A review by Rogue of the original seminar
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23 May 2008
This was the first seminar that I have ever attended. And I am so glad I decided to go. What a great seminar.

The seminar took place over 3 days, 12 hours a day. It was really intense. The time was very compressed, and we covered a lot of very personal, emotionally-charged territory.

I really liked the organization. Frank placed the most emotionally draining portions on the first day, when we were freshest. This was a really wise move. He also placed more relaxed, intellectual topics on the last day, such as emotional needs analysis.

We covered a lot of ground from the book. It was very helpful to review the material with Frank there to provide additional insight. It was also great to go through the exercises surrounded by other guys. I would listen to other men share their answers and experiences and then I would read out my own. It lead me to feel connected to these men and really in touch with them.

As part of that, we developed the best bit of the entire seminar. Frank wanted us to feel that we are the best judges of our own lives, not him. So periodically, Frank would tell us all to tell him to f-off. So we would all get up and yell "F-you, Frank!"

What a riot!

One of the most memorable events during the weekend was a field trip to the cemetery. We looked at the gravestones and considered our own deaths, and our own mortality. It was very moving, and really drove home Frank's point - our time on earth is limited; use it wisely.

Frank also had three special guests. Johnny Soporno was, as always, fantastic. He repeated topics that he had discussed before, and it is always good to get a refresher. Michael the Dating Wizard was a cool guy who told some really interesting stories, Christiano seemed to be a natural.

Overall, I was very glad I went to this seminar. I learned a lot.

"F-YOU, FRANK!"

-Rogue of Montreal
A review by Palence of the original seminar
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23 May 2008
This is the first seminar I have ever attended as well, and it won't be last one I attend by FBK.

Short and sweet: This is an inner game seminar where a large amount of personal discovery and revelation is compressed into 3 days. The cost was right.

We reviewed several of the writing exercises in the book as well as quite a bit of new material. The real benefit came from the process: reviewing the personal constructs we have created in our own lives and the larger social constructs society has created, imagining in detail the life we want, and making a plan to get there while shedding the baggage. Frank's Emotional Needs Analysis is brilliant and is the code breaker of emotional communication in relationships of all kinds. Something which made the seminar especially valuable were the additions of guest speakers: Christiano, Michael the Dating Wizard and Johnny Soporno. Never having heard of them before I was especially impressed by the fact that these guys are all coming from a place of integrity and honesty, and are as successful (in relationships) as gurus. Frank is in this list as well, and Fab's comment that Frank sincerely cares about the long term viability of the relationships he helps create is no exaggeration. Not to be a hater, but try asking DD or RJ how to save a marriage and see how far you get. Franks ENA and inner game seminar shows how to challenge yourself to discover what you really want, how to get her, and how to keep her her (and you) happier than you ever imagined possible.

I would consider doing it again in a year to check my progress and reap further enlightenment.

Challenge your Mentors: "F-YOU FRANK!"

-Palence of Toronto
A review by Pharaoh of the original seminar
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23 May 2008
Since joining the community a year ago I have seen the best and the worst of what it has to offer. During that time I have become familiar with Frank Kermit’s work after reading “Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test” and attending numerous meetings where Frank spoke. Frank has amazing insights and has changed forever my views on women and my role as a man. Unlike many products offered by the seduction community, his get to the core issue, which is how to address a woman’s emotional needs while having your own needs meet. This will not only help you get laid, but it will also help you to keep the girl if that's your desire.

At the end of March I attended Franks 36 hour Inner Game Seminar, based on his book "I'm a Man, It's My Job". Speaking for myself I can say I was blown away by the depth of the material presented. Frank is passionate, remarkably intelligent, and did a fantastic job in setting us on a course to develop solid inner game.

The workshop consisted of written exercises, a cemetery walk, guest speakers, and a discussion of relationship rules and emotional needs. Why a cemetery walk? To get the point across that we are here only for a short while, and that we better make the most of our lives while we are here. Have you ever met old people who seem to be resentful and bitter, and other old people who are happy even though they know the end is near? The happy ones are those that took risks and lived their lives to the fullest. They are not asking "what if" because they have lived fully in the moment and did what they wanted to do. For me that is what the community is all about, and the cemetery walk got the point across succinctly.

The written exercises in "I'm a Man, It's My Job" are all designed for a single purpose – to help you get to know yourself. To me it’s amazing that as men we often go through life without having a clear understanding of what stand for or even what we like/dislike. Many of us just “go with the flow” which is often influenced by the popular media. The problem is when we “go with the flow” we appear wishy washy. Low value males are wishy washy and don’t get laid. High value Alpha males are decisive and adhere to a value system. They take the lead, meet emotional needs and get laid. We did many of the exercises from the book at the workshop which allowed for great feedback from Frank and the participants.

All the guest speakers were excellent. Johnny Soporno talked about open relationships and debunking “intellectual constructs”. “Intellectual Constructs” are ideals we are “supposed” to believe which don’t work because they are not based on reality. Christiano Junior was another guest speaker who gave an inspirational talk about how he overcame poverty in Brazil to become a master seducer in Toronto using natural game. Mike the dating wizard was the last guest speaker and talked about the merits of direct vs. indirect game.

The final day was devoted to a discussion of Franks’ rules of relationships and his emotional needs theories. The emotional needs theories are basis of all of Franks work, and help to explain the psychological reasons behind women’s behavior towards men. Men who meet these needs are perceived as high value Alpha males and are highly attractive. The emotional needs theories are applicable no matter what “gurus” you’ve studied. Once you understand emotional needs, it is easy to explain why different methods work or don’t work based on the needs they address or violate.

For those of you who were not able to attend the workshop I highly recommend Franks book "I'm a Man, It's My Job". They were taping the workshop so watch for it coming out soon.

-Pharaoh from B.C.

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