Once again you amaze me with your unique view on picking up women. Being alpha is one thing, but you need to employ things like knowing both female and male Emotional Needs. You clearly are the expert on this, Knowing your info will help those who need to optimize their interactions with women to meet their goals. As for Older Guys Dating Younger Women, It also helps those who are stuck in their old ways to help fulfill in meeting younger women. Again, congrats on both and highly recommended,
Bryan Downing,author
Instant Alpha Male
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Frank brings good news to the older seducer: to women they possess higher value! And the strength of experience can put them above the competition! The further lack of a biological clock in men is no mean advantage when you consider that a 25 year-old female has 10 critical years before she enters the danger zone for having children. Frank's lecture reviewed a) the stigmas associated with older men dating younger women and their solutions, b) the key emotional needs for both women and men in the age difference, c) methods of approaching younger women, and d) several answers to questions posed by members of the audience. One social stigma, that older men are simply out to buy younger women, can be complicated by the opposition of her friends and family. Frank pointed out the interesting psychology of the 'friends' that are uninterested in her happiness, but are only interested in sabotaging the higher value attention she recieves in the relationship. Frank gives advice on handling the opposition--including the the opposition of the older man's friends and family. In his case, friends and family fear his success and happiness because his remaining a loser will enable them to maintain their own comfort zones. Next, Frank outlined the emotional needs of younger women and highlighted the prime issues for older men. On her reputation, the older man enhances it, giving her a boost in maturity in her own mind. The challenge is that he will have to weed out the goldiggers and the damaged goods. The female need for drama, the variety of emotional states, is a potential challenge for older men who may find the male emotional need for quiet time without drama to have increased. Older men will have to wrest from oblivion--or otherwise develop--their ability to create drama and playful conflict, and role-play, to meet the greater demand for emotional range in younger women! When dealing with the little girl inside, a man must be able to distinguish those women who wish to compensate losses in a father-figure from those who are seeking and capable of an authentic relationship. The second type will still need to have the inner child engaged. On dominance, there is an added burden for older men in leading the relationship--more so than a younger guy. But the advantage is that younger women are more likely to comply with his direction and be more forgiving than an older woman. Fear of Abandonment is important as it is the only EN not working in his favour. This one will keep her pestering for marriage, as well as impose the added fear of widowhood and fatherless children. Frank gives valuable advice in confronting her family on this critical point. Frank adds advice on where you can meet younger women, as well as dealing with the competition. Remember, a younger woman with an older man sees younger guys as mere distractions; whereas a younger woman with a younger guy sees older guys as potential replacements! Life gets better! Frank then lectured on the male emotional needs and the importance for older guys to test women on them. For men, the need for femininity in all its aspects is most dangerous. From her perspective, she will be concerned about being dumped for a more beautiful younger girl. Also, one must beware of 'El Destructo', the emotional need of the boy inside who wants others to meet all of his emotional needs ("One-itis" is particularly acute here). Finally Frank talked about different methods of approaching younger women, and the tests required to recognize the goldiggers and other unworthies. All in all, a confidence-refreshing lecture for men concerned about their erotic viability over the hill!
-Bonehead from Toronto

I got a lot out of it as well. The part about the older men dating younger woman didn't hit home for me too much cause I'm not really in that situation yet... but some light bulbs went off in my head in accordance to using the EN model when just doing regular approaches.

Right now I am just beginning to learn about the emotional needs and how to apply them so anything that helps me to internalize this stuff is great.

For instance, I thought the kinds of 'tests' frank was originally referring to were the conscious shit-tests women give you. I had no idea that they were subconscious things that you can pick up from listening to the way they word things in regular conversation. ie. "OMG! I used to go traveling all the time when I was little!"

And also I had no idea that the best way to qualify a woman is to flip the cards and test her... based on YOUR emotional needs.

Awesome stuff. I definitely wanna hear more in the future... ESPECIALLY if we can do the opposite: younger men and older women. - Nitro in Toronto

It was interesting to sit in on a lecture by Frank when the topic is how to get younger women because I'm 21. Being the youngest person there and a guy who could probably use a lecture on OLDER women I expected to not really get much out of it but I should know better by now than to have low expectations of a Frank lecture. Between being introduced to "El Destructo" and getting an analysis on how older men address a woman's emotional needs I learned a lot about women in general. I was very much surprised to find I had taken 5 pages of notes. The highlight for me had to be how to approach women when your the kind of guy who she is dead set against dating. If you're a very overweight guy or a guy of a particulate background that she simply can't see herself with or anything like that Frank talks about how to get around those barriers so you can form relationships with women who would usually brush you off. It's little nuggets of gold like that, that put Frank's stuff above and beyond the rest, in my opinion.- Artisan in Toronto