I read Frank B. Kermit's book Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test. It was a quick read, and easily one of the better books that I've read on PU.

I gave it a chance because the single line message of the book is that you have to satisfy a woman's emotional needs for her to feel sexual attraction to you. This resonates with my personal belief, and it's something that most PU material ignores.

His theory is that a woman will assume either the role of Mother or Lover in your life. The urge to be Mother is stronger than the urge to be Lover so she constantly tests you, based on her emotional needs, to see what category you fall into. Those tests are categorized. The categories are pretty self-explanatory, but the book expands on them and specifically explains how your response will trigger either the Mother or Lover role.

He doesn't claim that his Mother/Lover theory is necessarily truth, rather it's a model of behaviour that works. As an engineer, I could relate

The easy takeaway is that you should subject every response you give a woman to the following test; are my words more likely to put her in the role of Mother or Lover. IOW, in my response, will I be asking her to meet my needs, or will I demonstrate that I understand and can meet her's?

As an aside, point 10 was surprisingly with merit. He quoted an example of a woman that wasted her childbearing years married to a man that turned out to be gay.

Actually he said pretty clearly in the book, that it's a behavior modification strategy and it doesn't represent any kind of truth (or philosophy). The book is basically targeted at guys that just aren't getting anywhere with women, or aren't getting what they want. If you want to change that, then you have to be willing to change some aspect of yourself. Once you get into the habit of approaching things like a man instead of like a boy, it becomes your nature. By using an extreme example, he explains very well how so-called jerks and assholes meet a woman's emotional needs and pass her tests without even trying.

-Dilbert from the IW forum

When I wrote my review for I'm A Man, That's My Job I called it the most valuable and helpful piece of community material ever. When I started reading that book, I had only been exposed to a small fraction of the material inside. I makes me wonder how I would feel about this book if I had not been coached by Frank before reading it because Everything Out Of Her Mouth Is A Test has been the foundation of my game for a year (when I started learning how to interact with women) and I've never found the need to un-learn anything from it. If you're goal is to learn about women you aren't going to find a word-for-word more valuable volume than this masterpiece from Brother Kermit.
The emotional needs model inside is what I find myself falling back on time and time again. When something doesn't work, I do an emotional needs analysis of the situational, when something does work, same thing. When I want to know what to do, same thing and when I'm not sure how to do it, there is a chapter dedicated to every one of the 10 emotional needs of women.
When you understand the model, women no longer appear to be mysterious- they become predictable and trust me, the beauty of women isn't there unpredictability.
Here's the main reason you should read this book: this book is about women. Ask yourself, who's the focus of the other material you've studied? This isn't a methodology that tells you what to do, it's a system that provides you with a map of what your actions are actually doing inside a woman and shows you why certain things work and "why the man must fuck." Putting the woman's emotional needs near the center of my game just made perfect sense to me because that's what I want: women.
-Artisan in Toronto

Frank's stuff is great for something I know nothing about.... RELATIONSHIPS (you won't find better material or a mentor anywhere).....-Razorjack in Toronto

I'd been in the community for 2 years before stumbling across the book "Everything out of her Mouth is a Test", and it was just what I needed at the time. Even though I'd had more success with women than anyone I knew personally, I was very far from where I wanted to be. I had a "just do what works" mentality, but this didn't really help me understand or connect with women the way the emotional needs, described in this book, do. For me, the emotional needs are a great tool for analyzing past interactions with women, they do a pretty good job of answering the question "what do women want?", but most importantly, they provide the foundation from which all of our actions as seducers can be derived.

For those of you who haven't read any of Kermit's books, I'm not saying this out of the joy of reading but rather out of the experience I had applying some of my knowledge on emotional needs to women I went out with:

READ EVERYTHING OUT OF HER MOUTH IS A TEST: A Man's Guide To The Emotional Needs of Women

This book is unlike anything you ever have, or ever will come across in the community. You don't learn how to be a pick-up artist, you learn how to bring out the seducer in you, the guy NOT ONLY the woman has sex with, but most of all, the guy she falls in love with.

I use this book as reference whenever I hit a block somewhere and I don't know how to solve the problem. For some reason, Kermit already answered your question in that book. - P.P.

Frank's book is so ESSENTIAL in figuring out how a woman thinks, I could do nothing without it. The Ten Emotional Needs have been essential in teaching me exactly where I go wrong with what I do. Other books may teach you how to demonstrate value, but Frank's book is the one that teaches you how to pass tests. You can only ignore a woman's tests for so long before they will lose interest and leave you.

Natural or player alike, if you read this book, you will finally grasp exactly why a woman stays with you, and why she leaves. If anything was to teach men, "What women want", it's this one. Read it, and begin to make the world a better place, one woman at a time. -Gogland

I would recommend a newbie read Frank B. Kermit's "Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test" and "I'm a Man, It's My Job". The first will give the guy an understanding of WHY all the techniques mentioned in the books you mention work because it explains women’s emotional needs. The second is a classic on inner game - without which the effectiveness of the teachings in the books you mention will be very limited.
-A review from Relax&Flow of relaxandflow.blogspot.com

'Everything out of her mouth is a test' and 'The emotional needs workbook vol 1'

Frank is a seasoned seducer from Canada who focuses on relationship management (either Long term relationships or Multiple long term relationships). I've read both books and gained valuable insights into my relationships and what I can do to make them better. I'd recommend them to anyone in a relationship - really useful stuff.
-J. in London

I read "Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test" twice. Let's begin with my favorite parts of Every Thing Out of her Mouth is Test: Frank, I think you make profound observations in this book and reveal some universal truths: particularly on the issue of dominance in relationships, the essential ingredients of relationships-first and foremost KNOW WHO YOU ARE, what three things a child must have being brought into this world and when people lie to themselves often enough they start to believe their own bull. Your re-framing of male female relationships in that a woman can only be your mother or lover is simply brilliant. I never thought of it that way but now putting all my female relationships in to that perspective it seems to make perfect sense. The essential heart of your book on how to address the ten emotional needs of women is a great working manual for having better control over my relationships. I don't have to wonder what the heck I have been doing wrong now that I can implement your insight and advice. Something else you have written also caught my attention: You ARE A MAN, kill the little boy inside you or at least silence him. I have been emoting far too long letting that little prick have his way and enough is enough. I am glad you made me aware of this very dysfunctional behavior. I think you have come up with some very plausible theories on why some women(particularly beautiful women) seem to be attracted to, date and have sex with violent jerks. When I lived in Montreal I noticed this tendency particularly among young "exotic dancer" type girls who dated motor cycle gang members, Mafioso's, and other assorted thugs. I, like most "nice guys" could not understand what the fuck was going on. Finally, I appreciate your honesty in writing your theories about relationship management are just that: your theories and not to be taken as divine truth. They work for you and that is why you are passing them on to your readers. All in all, Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test has been a real eye opener for me . Like the proverbial doctor who removes cataracts so the patient can see better, your book removed some of my cataracts-supplicating/ beta behavior. Now I can see what is really happening in my relationships or lack there of as a result of my dysfunctional behavior and beliefs. I can now become a better MAN because of my greater awareness, new attitude and ACTIONS. - A Review From Perry M in Japan

I joined the community in April after reading the Game by Neil Strauss. I am 43 years old, and have struggled with relationships all my life. I definitely am a recovering AFC.
The community has shed much light on the issues I was having. I have received coaching from various companies, and purchased several books, including those by Frank Kermit. My game has improved substantially since April, and I am in sight of my goals. I am now approaching women and getting numbers and dates on a regular basis. I have also been in a non-committed sexual relationship for about 2 months.
I recently took another seminar on approaching women during the day. All I can tell you is buyer beware when it comes to purchasing seduction products. This course was $750.00 and ended up being a rehash of a previous more in-depth course I took from the same company. It was crammed into 5 hours and they did not even provide handouts. There was one instructor for 11 students and in my view it was a complete waste of money.
Since joining in April I have seen the best and the worst of what the community has to offer. I have recently become familiar with Frank Kermit's work after reading "Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test". This book contains amazing insights and has changed forever my views on women and my role as a man. Unlike most products offered by the seduction community, this book gets to the core issue, which is how to address a woman's emotional needs. Although the routines and tactics taught in the community are useful, this book will help you to interpret why those routines and tactics work. His writing style is clear and concise, and sprinkled with plenty of wit. It is a pleasure to read. Franks insights are helping in my current relationship. I no longer get bewildered when she "acts up" as I have in past relationships. I now attempt to address her emotional needs on a consistent basis, and don't get as frustrated. For example, this particular woman has a tendency to go on and on about her pending divorce. I've set boundaries around "being her therapist", and when she does go on and on, I just give her a big hug and tell her "it will be OK". This addresses her emotional need of "catering to the little girl in her". By telling her that I don't want to be her therapist, I also address her emotional need of "being honest, even if it pisses her off".
I am a busy executive and do not read as much as I should. Truth be told, I have a short attention span and get bored with books quite easily. However Frank Kermits' book is compelling and I could not put it down. From the first few pages I felt this guy is onto something. Frank will be the first to admit that he does not know if his theories are true. All he knows is that they work for him, and may work for others. I have been field testing some of his theories on emotional needs and so far I can tell you they have worked for me in terms of getting and maintaining attraction and compliance.
-Pharaoh

Guys,There is a book that you must get your hands on! It will forever change the way you view dating and relationships. It's called Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test. Have you ever been with a woman where you're alone and it's just you and her, maybe you've had an otherwise beautiful time together, your emotional needs seem to be addressed, you're in a good mood and things seem comfortable and going in your favor, but suddenly, out of the blue, she says something that leaves you thinking "how could she possibly say that to me?" There is only one thought that flashes in your mind; "DON'T SCREW THIS UP!" Ok, so now you're in a panic! Your heart is racing! You're thinking "Did I do something wrong? What did I do? what did I say? Should I just apologize? What can I say or do to make her calm down? How can I possibly change the subject and get this off her mind? Why can't she just calm down and act the way ME AND THE BOYS do when we're hanging out? Is there something wrong with her? What if she rejects me?" You're going through all the cheesy lines in you can think of. But what if you can just wait this out!..you close your eyes and tap your heels and wait a few seconds and look at her again...she's STILL waiting on you to reply! Think fast! Ok, so now not only are you not thinking fast, you're also frozen stiff! In fact, you're scared to say anything! This is about the time when, to your surprise, SHE STARTS TELLING YOU WHAT YOU SHOULD SAY! AND NOT ONLY IS SHE TELLING YOU WHAT TO SAY, SHE'S ALSO TELLING YOU WHAT TO DO!!! Why can't she just love you for the MAN that you are and stop acting like your mother? BECAUSE SHE'S TESTING YOU! AND YOU'VE JUST FAILED!!! To learn exactly why EVERY THING OUT OF HER MOUTH IS A TEST and what you can do about it, just read this book. But guys, let's be clear on something; you can make excuses all day long, but It's not her fault, it's yours! You are a MAN - and this is precisely why SHE MUST TEST YOU; so you can PROVE that you are a trustworthy mate, a great leader amongst your tribe, and can build a bigger better fire and stronger hut than any other potential mate! SAY WHAT????? You see guys, I've discovered a startling secret from Frank when it comes to women; they have this little thing called biological programming. It's been going on for millions of years, and it's all about instinct. A woman's biological programming gives her strong emotional needs that you must first address before she will become your lover. If you do not address her emotional needs and prove to her that you are a worthy lover, her motherly instincts will kick in and she will start mothering you! That's right, you heard me; SHE WILL START TREATING YOU LIKE A LITTLE BOY! She'll tell you what to wear, what to eat, what to do, what not to do, what to say, what not to say, when to go to bed...and it won't be a pretty sight! So if you don't start acting like a MAN, you won't get treated like a MAN. "Ok", you may be asking, "I know this may seem obvious, but how can I start acting like a man?" You can start by studying the lessons in the book! "Ok," you may still be asking, "What if I just want to go out and have a good time without having to worry about all this complicated stuff?" Well, that's precisely why you should BE A MAN ABOUT IT and learn the secrets of what you need to know to attract women and YOU'LL NEVER EVER NEED TO WORRY ABOUT THIS STUFF AGAIN!!!" Remember, you don't need to be the best in the world with this stuff to have success with women, you just need to be better than all the other average frustrated guys out there that are just the way you used to be before now! -Your friend Robbie of Toronto

I've just finished my first read-through of this book, which will definitely not be my last. This book not only summarizes everything I've ever learnt about meeting women, it provides an incredible look into the psyche of women which goes a long way toward the better understanding of female psychology. Understanding each emotion need and its subsections is only the preparational material in the book, because the real power of the book is the eventual understanding of what it means when a man and a woman interact. It boils down the whole complexity of sarging a woman into the question of "Will she view you as a lover or not?" I wish there were an even more powerful way of saying that this book is unbelievably insightful, but there is not so all I can say is: this book is unbelievably insightful. Having done emotional needs analyses for months before reading this book, I was blown away by all the things I did not yet know about the emotional needs. I was blown away by how well Frank understands each of these needs and I was just shocked by the amount of ground this book covers with just 10 needs. In just 10 needs, Frank has condensed a very large portion of community material into just one book. I've yet to find a technique, routine or gimmick that can not be broken down and made sense of with these needs and being a person who normally pokes holes in everything, this is just incredible. This is a must read for all men.
-Gillette in Toronto

I have read your first three books and the one I like best would be Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test. This was the last book I read. I think the title scared me at first. of all the dating and relationship books I read no one has addressed her emotional needs like you did. Your quote: "this is why you must f*ck her". I never heard this before, after reading this book and looking at other peoples relationships that is a very true statement.
-John of New Hampton IA

I am reading Frank's book Everything Outta Her Mouth is a Test. I find myself nodding my head in agreement quite often with this one. I even did a small segment on it in my podcast show recently in helping one of my listeners with a female management problem. - Player Supreme

As quoted off the Toronto Lair (torontolair.Ca)

I just love this book. If you want to get a grasp of the 10 Emotional Needs of women, this is the book for you. The main part of the book is about the 10 Emotional Needs. You get a explanation about every one of the 10 needs in a sharp and honest way. Also you get lots of how-to implimentations of addressing the 10 Emotioanl Needs in REAL life situations and a strategies on how to get girls using the Emotional Needs analysis. This book is a must have book. I will read it again for sure - Mathmann, Denmark

Talk about redemption moment. Spent 5 days in NYC with the girl that basically caused all my chump loser mental/health problems for the past 6 years. We didn't just hook up however, but had the most amazing sex of my life. I utilized basically everything from the book, but modified for my own personality and character. The issue of Discretion, totally came up, and luckily I was prepared, thanks to the book. I really feel everything seduction-wise has stepped-up for me big time. I don't think I could've done it without the framework you provided in your book. Basically, no tactics, no openers, no qualifying, NO TRICKS. Just pure, simple, being a man, and taking care of the girl without being needy.Thanks Frank B Kermit! - Toronto J.

Frank - I'm on page 70 of 'Everything out of a woman’s mouth is a test' It beats the other book you wrote to s**t - it's that good. I have highlighted a lot of things that pertain to my now defunct marriage of 20 years. You have really searched the depths of your soul and it shows with your keen insights. I'm becoming the stronger man for it as I constantly pore over your material. I have never done so much high lighting as with one book. I write in the margins what I did wrong and how going forward I will correct it. I just read Emotional Need no 2 women want to feel a range of emotions. Pg 70 through 75. This absolutely hit me like A brick and now I know what I need to do going forward. I had no idea my ex would start fights on purpose just so she could feel. Now I get it. Those 5 Pages I will memorize. Those 5 pages alone are worth the cost of the book. Btw - every time I read your Book I go over from page 1 to where I stopped last and reread the points I Highlighted before I move forward in the book to where I last dropped off. This helps my brain memorize/program this into me so it will become second nature. After 20 years of marriage (Divorce) this book was the ONE book that knocked me over the head. It told me everything I did wrong. Best book ever for men that are still married. I wish I read this 5 years ago. Btw - I keep poring over your book - best book I ever read. Fantastic insights and for every thing you point out I put down what I did wrong and how I will do it right the next time. Great Book Frank. -Ereculus from Colorado, USA

I found the book an interesting, but slightly dark read. You are definitely a far more philosophical thinker than many others currently writing about the game. I can also tell you're well educated and expect the same level of intelligence from your audience. - Wolfeman2

Everything Out of Her Mouth is a TEST: It has some great info about the subconscious mind along with in an in depth discussion on how the satisfy the top 10 emotional needs of a women through her tests. I got a real greater understanding of women through this one. Now when I'm with a girl, I really pay attention to the needs he talks about in his books. I just came back from LA on business and witnessed all kinds of interactions going on between couples I met, which I can now really relate to in terms of the dynamics of the relationships. I now have a better understanding of what is actually going on. In my opinion, I don’t believe that Franks books are a pick up guide. I do however believe they will truly enhance your relationship and your general interactions with women.This book is A MUST. - Warrior1

A quick email from L.B....Have you ever seen the movie Belle Du Jour starring "Catherine Deneuve"? This was one of those movies that disturbed me way back when I first saw it. I was fascinated and disturbed at the same time. I mean, here's this beautiful girl married to a good-looking doctor who loved her dearly (High Quality Sperm and Fear of Abandonment). Why would she go out during the day to work in a brothel? WHY??? Well, now I know... she needed the Emotional Range, so she took on a pseudonym to Protect Her Reputation, her husband could not display Dominance or Handle Her Sexuality, he was a "nice guy" so she could not rely on him for Trust and Honesty. There's more to it but those were the main ones. It's amazing; your theory finally helped me understand this movie that has fascinated me for a long time. You’re book Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test, and your understanding of Women’s Emotional Needs has finally helped me put these long dogging questions to rest. – L.B.

Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test. After reading this book, you truly understand the deeper levels of communication of a woman. Everyone says women are emotional. But what are her emotional needs? What does a woman REALLY mean when she says something? Why do women call most men “clueless”? Frank has identified some of the most important, if not to say, fundamental needs of women. Why does it bother women to be called sluts (I’m sure guys wouldn’t feel the way a woman feels if called a player!)? Why do women say one thing and do another? Why do women end up dating “jerks” (what are the qualities the jerks possesses?)? Why does a woman feel remorse after sleeping with you / kissing you in a club? These are the type of situations all men have gone through and only few know how to handle in order to be the real man who knows how to satisfy the woman’s needs. This is not a book about pick-up lines. This is a book that will teach you how to get in touch with your masculinity in order to adopt the correct mindset, hence addressing a woman’s emotional needs. Unless you are a man whose love-life is exactly the way you want it to be or a woman who’s found the perfect man, I would strongly encourage you to this work of art. - PZN The Player

I am reading "Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test" for the second time --and taking notes as a read. I will turn 40 years old next month. Throughout my life, my biggest frustration has been my inability to form and maintain sexual relationships with women. I have read every book that I could get my hands on -- listened to tapes -- watched videos -- attended seminars (including flying out to seminars across the USA over the last 10+ years) -- and consulted with therapists of various kinds. Despite my lack of success in the past, I am ABSOLUTELY CONVINCED that I will now have much more success with women using your unified theory. It is like a light bulb has been turned on -- and this formerly dark and confusing issue of women's emotional needs is now much clearer. Man, I now see how and why I repeatedly flunked these tests in the past! Sure, it is going to take a lot of practice and effort on my part -- but that has not been my problem. Thanks to your useful unified theory, I now have a useful guide to keep me on the right course. I look forward to consulting with you further-- and hopefully take a trip to attend your seminars on this material concerning satisfying a woman's emotional needs. -Anonymous 40 in the USA

Hey guys, here's my review of Frank B. Kermit's book Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test. It's a man's guide to satisfying the emotional needs of women. Chapter 1: In this chapter Frank covers his core beliefs in order for his reader to appreciate his basic theories on men, women and relationships that he presents throughout the rest of his book. While I found most of the chapter to be ground breaking, the idea that stuck out the most was the sophistication of a woman's emotional circuitry. Here's an example: 1.A woman meets a new man. She quickly becomes physically attracted to him. This is her first level of emotion. 2.Realizing that she is attracted to this man, she now starts feeling guilty because she has a boyfriend. This is her second level of emotion. 3.Then she starts to feel resentful indignation towards her boyfriend because she is feeling guilty for feeling attracted. This is her third level of emotion. 4.Now she may get feelings of uncertainty about her relationship with her boyfriend because she is feeling resentful indignation towards him, because she is feeling guilty for feeling attracted. This is her fourth level of emotion. This can go on and on.... For some women at least. The end result of this is that WHEN she will hit that final emotional level, it will be THAT emotional need that the man must address when she tests him. Yes it is some pretty deep stuff right here, but at least it gives you an idea of why us men have a hard time understanding why women may act the way they do in some instances. Chapter 2: In my experiences, I noticed something about women whom I didn't end up dating but would make them my friend. I learned that a good female friend will make an active effort into hooking you up with other women, whereas a bad female friend will actually get jealous and even sabotage you hooking up just so that she can guarantee herself the most amount of attention from men. Unfortunately, most of my female friends have turned into the latter leaving me little choice but to ditch 'em...Some of you may or may not be aware of Kermit's Lover vs. Mother Theory when explaining our relationships with women. In this chapter, he went into quite some detail about it. One of the paragraphs really stuck out (actually a lot of the paragraphs really stuck out so I was hard pressed to finally choosing one) for me here: "A female friend is more of a "mother" to you than she will ever be a "lover". At this point, it is what kind of mother she is going to be for you. If she is useful, and helps you meet other women for you to potentially have sex with, she is a good mother. If she keeps you around to wash her car or to buy her stuff, but she is NOT useful when helping you meet other women for you to potentially have sex with, then she is a bad mother. If she is the latter, then dump her, or let one of your male friends f-word her, and get him to introduce you to one of his "bad" mothers." I remember hearing stories about real mothers actually getting JEALOUS when their sons would be dating some women. I know it's an extreme case, but it helps illustrate Kermit's point. I guess now I have my first good screening question for a woman if I'm looking at possibly having her as a potential mother for my children: "Are you the kind of girl that helps her guy friends hook up? Kinda like a match maker?" Seems like an innocent question but it will say s-word loads about the woman you are talking to. Also note that people who are often single tend to like keeping those around them single as misery loves company. Just some more food for thought...- Milachku in Montreal

Chapter 3: In this chapter, Frank finally goes over the proverbial emotional needs that most women test for when interacting with a man. He makes it clear that all interactions between a man and a woman will display this dynamic and from it a woman will decide consciously or unconsciously whether she will be that man's lover or mother symbolically. The ten emotional needs were covered in Frank's first book (From Loser to Seducer), but now he went into much more detail giving examples of real life experiences of himself and people he knows to illustrate how and why they are there. Of interesting note, at the end of explaining each emotional need is that once you pass it you MUST ALSO HAVE SEX HER(or at least make an attempt) for the emotional need(s) to have fully been satisfied. This is why Kermit has taught us that when you DON'T have sex with a woman when the opportunity arises then you risk violating ALL TEN emotional needs and that nasty back rationalization that women do can come and bite you in the rear-end...A lot of the things said in this chapter (like his earlier chapters) coincide my own life experiences. Examples include: --> Don't mix the catering the little girl inside her emotional need WHILE having sex. Before and after is OK, but doing it DURING sex is bad. I had a girlfriend in the past that would still call me those cute names during sex (she did have clingy issues) and for some reason the sex wasn't as passionate. I now understand why. --> This issue of fear of abandonment can be about 50% of the reason why some women will give heavy last minute hesitations prior to sex. Even if a woman knows it's a one night stand, she still has to feel that she is unique to you in some way. --> Most men in this day and age can't handle a woman's honesty about who she really is. Being able to handle a woman's honesty takes more practice than you'd imagine. --> Women have to be picky about the men they lay for reasons most of us understand. Not only do men not have to deal with those same issues, but the best way for the man to pass his genes on is to lay as many women as possible. It ALMOST doesn't matter who. I guess when you get to the point where it becomes a high quality problem then you start to raise your standards considerably. But the bottom line is that real alpha males have sex with most women. And, in the end, the experience this lends itself to will teach you what you need to know when it comes time (if it does) to finding and keeping that woman you truly want to settle down with. -->I never realized that women were so worried about their man being secretly an "in the closet homosexual" and the repercussions that could come of it. Looking back in life, not only can I think of times where a woman may have tested me on this, but that some of those tests were so harsh that they could even be emasculating/castrating. Although, that could come under the emotional need of dominance as well. So far, this book is a very smooth read with a lot of points that stick out so finish up the last few smaller chapters should go rather well for me. - Milachku in Montreal

Chapter 4: In this chapter Frank gives out his favorite tried and true methods for addressing a woman's emotional needs. Most of us have seen such methods mentioned in other seduction programs but what really helps is how Frank gives real life examples of these. I was able to relate to most of his experiences which made for some good reading. Here are some highlights: --> Being playful: Agreeing with what she says and then exaggerating it. This kinda reminds me of one guy's ideas of handle accusative women. --> "When you see that girls you like, like you back, that is the sign that you need to use LOTS more sincere vulnerability in your communication." This really strikes home with me... --> Picking a fight: Well, luckily I get annoyed real easy so maybe this is one of the reasons why I often maintain my power in relationships... read the chapter for more details. But, Frank does mention about certain backlashes or consequences that can come from this depending on the woman you are with and this has also been my experience as well. Also, his info on using misinterpretation here is real gold. --> He covers a lot of information on when to give a woman attention, specifically through touching her. And these ideas seem that they would be very applicable to 9's and 10's whom may being "acting" seductive with you. Chapter 5: The emotional cookie man: I used to be here back in the day, and Frank points out some real key points to watch out for in order to prevent yourself from ever being classified as such by a woman ever again. It's a short chapter but I will point something out: -->Key point: Is she giving you more attention than you already earned? Yes? This is emotional cookie territory. Chapter 6: Why women date violent jerks. In this chapter, Frank covers why some women go for jerks. He covers a lot of complex deep seated issues that surround this "paradox". I thought I understood a lot of such reasons but there is more to it than even most pick up artists would imagine. At some points he covers things that now make perfect sense but at other times some of the ideas seem to be out of my reach. I won't go over specific examples here because some of them are quite personal as how they pertain to my life experiences. Final Overall Review: The best way I can describe Frank's writing style is to that of Ernest Hemingway. Hemingway's writings are best described as deceptively simplistic. What I mean is that the reading is actually quite smooth and you can flow from page to page quite easily as the choice of words he uses won't make your brain hurt or water your eyes from complexity. But, at the same time there are always deeper important issues that he is addressing. Frank's work here is easy to read through but he covers very important and complex topics. I don't know how many guys have bought this book but it seems to me that most haven't read through it. You're really missing out here if you don't invest some time in this book. A lot of the concepts he presents have been presented in other Pick up philosophies but no one puts it all together in the way Frank does, and especially not how he keeps things as simple as possible so that it's easy to learn and readily applicable. - Milachku in Montreal

I read Loser to Seducer when it came out, it hit home. Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test though is something freakin' else. I'm not even finished it -- but it is fan-freakin-tastic. Buy it now! I'm going to recommend it to some other folks as well. Frank B Kermit, thanks again for your help in 2006, and taking the time to write this stuff down! As I head into harem management territory this is perfect timing for me. Freakin' A! - -S.V.

I was given the opportunity to sit down with Frank (Frank B. Kermit) to discuss a couple of problems that I had recently encountered with one particular woman. I told him about what happened, and what I said in response to a “test” she had given me. Frank opened my eyes. Frank took the time to gain an understanding of the scenario that I was in, and challenged me with various alternatives that would have better addressed the needs that were being communicated behind the scenes. A few days since my discussion with Frank, I read his book, “Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test”. Through reading his book, I gained a better understanding of women, and how to satisfy their emotional needs. I immediately put his theories and methods into practice with the girl I had been dating (the same girl I had spoke to Frank about). Much to my surprise, I was faced again with the same exact scenario that I had already spoken to Frank about. However this time, I was able to hear her words, and identify the emotional need that was being communicated. The power that I felt during that moment in time was indescribable. As the saying goes, knowledge is truly power. If you’re wondering about the end result - let’s just say that I was truly satisfied and happy. Considering I’ve been studying seduction for 3+ years, I thought I would meet Frank and little of what he had to say would be new information. I was dead WRONG. Frank really enlightened me with his consultation and his book. His theories and methods are genuine, and come with lots of integrity. I attest to what he has to say, and highly recommend him and his books. -A.G. from Chicago

You're a genius! I have read many books, listened to many tapes, and watched many videos from various "seduction gurus" -- and none of them explain the emotional needs of women as clearly as you. Your work has expanded my consciousness, and I am very grateful. - Name and Location Requested Withheld.

I'm LOVING the Everything Out of Her Mouth is a Test book. I don't agree that EVERYTHING is a test, but I totally support the idea of multiple levels of emotional response and a guy being able to read and handle these. It's what is called "meta states" in NLP; that each state then generates a new state, which reflexively modifies the first state, and generates another. Recursive consciousness. In this book, Frank has devised a great and VERY accessible tool for men to learn to understand exactly what they have done right, and what they have done wrong in a sarge, and also gives suggestions as to what to do next based on his understanding of the multiple and recursive levels of womens' emotional needs. But don't be fooled-this is not an academic text. Frank gives multiple examples right from his own real-life seduction experience, showing how to use this knowledge, step by step, from concept to action. As I have taught for years; knowing what to notice and pay attention to is as important as knowing what to do and what to say. This book is a very valuable and easy to use tool set for knowing what to pay attention to and notice. I highly recommend it, even more so than Frank's other book. Strong recommendation, very well written, A+ on this one. - Ross Jeffries (www.speedseduction.biz): The only source of Speed Seduction® Seminars and the 2007 Speed Seduction® new product line.

Frank, This month I turn 45... been married 17+ years. I got a son who is 15 years old. The stuff I'm learning from reading your books is amazing!!! Women's emotional range needs? It's like lifting a veil off my head so I can see... Thanks for inviting me. - W.E.

A lot of things you say in your books- I'm seeing first hand. - but I know now. I recently ran into an old friend of mine and he told me his girlfriend had just dumped him because he was "too nice"....a few months ago that wouldn't have made sense to me- but I know now. - R.A.

"Everything Out of Her Mouth Is a TEST" was much more than I expected. I have read and reviewed lots of materials from various people including some of the "big names" in the dating and seduction world. While they refer to tests (and while everybody knows that women test), most of them give very little information on how to handle these tests. Most of them define "tests" very narrowly as the things women do and say to test your manhood -- to see if their frame is stronger than yours, i.e., whether they can "top" you. These tests run rampant when you first meet a woman and surface at least occasionally throughout a relationship.What I was expecting was a list of this type of tests with a way to respond to each. For example... If she says, "I'm not interested. You're too old for me," you laugh in her face, say, "Are you always like this?" and continue the conversation. Your definition of "test" is much more broad and encompasses not only this type of test but many other other types that often are not recognized as tests -- the ones women use to determine whether you can meet their ten emotional needs. An in addition to an example of how to respond to each type of test, you present a catalog of ten types of responses to adapt and choose from. In other words, you provide a method for quickly examining the test and choosing from a myriad of possible responses.Your theory about the two roles a woman can play in an interaction with a man was intriguing and has changed the way I see male-female interactions.But perhaps the most insightful revelation was your discussion to the effect that, while men like to keep things steady from an emotional standpoint, women need to feel a wide range of emotions, both positive and negative -- and how to use this knowledge to keep the "drama" under control. From the information in your book -- and from our telephone conversation -- I can see that you have a lot of insight into testing and other aspects of relationships. Thank you for a very enlightening and thought provoking book. -Dave in USA

I've bought your book, and I'm really excited about reading it. I was thinking about this recently: your theory about emotional needs is probably the best retrospective analysis tool that I have found: you can piratically take every situation with women, and find out what you did right and what you did wrong. It will be very useful. - M.G.