I just got back from tonight's Frank Men's Group class, where we listened to the first CD of "Rules for First 10 Times...". I found the material to be quite interesting and insightful. Frank discusses 10 rules you should follow with a new lover. A few of these rules are pretty straight forward and you most of you may already be following them. Other rules are really coming from someone with lots of experience and provide solid advice for guys working on getting good with women. These rules help you avoid some of the mistakes along the way, so you wont have to learn everything the hard way.

After discussing these rules, Frank gives some really useful tips on how to make your sexual experience unique and different (not specific sexual acts or positions, but rather the context/situations around sex). I found these to be very insightful and they gave me some new perspectives on certain things. My personal favorite was the clearest, most straight forward definition of "romantic" that I've ever heard and that really made sense to me.

Overall, I'd definitely recommend this to all you guys trying to improve skills with women. While the title says "First 10 Times", most of this material is actually applicable (and should be applied) to all the other times you'll have sex afterward as well. So even if you're already in a relationship and are already having sex on a regular basis, you'll still get a lot of valuable information for making future sexual experiences even better.

Thanks Frank, for putting together and sharing this useful knowledge.
-Nitrous

I am impressed by a number of features of the Frank lectures:

The lecture on the "First 10 Ten Times You Have Sex with a New Lover" proved to be a cornucopia of general principles and precautions before engaging in sex, the type of women to beware of, and some sizzling
techniques for making those initial occasions unique. No one who was present will be furnishing their apartments or homes with glass tables, or layouts in conducive to sex in the future. If you take a lover on a whole-house sex tour (recommended for the 3rd or 4th tryst), the woman is going to remember those occasions when she's lunching with family and friends later. So the tips reinforce long-term success: as Frank said, these techniques can get a woman very hooked on you! Ask other members what they might be doing with the good china someday!

The last section of the evening included a woman's emotional needs analysis explaining how the various techniques solidify her attraction to you. The situations suggested provide the range of emotions that women need but men do not: whether it be performing a fantasy role play, or determining her particular seat at the dinner table, the women will be given suspenseful sex which, meeting other needs, will allay her fear of abandonment and ingrain greater trust in your leading role. Food, bathing , timing and pauses conspire to overwhelm her true sexuality and all other emotional needs.

Frank is always well-prepared, and, even though he speaks from the moment, the talks have proven to be logically organized in successive topics which flow together. Also, each evening's topic is analyzed according to the emotional needs of women so that you not only receive practical techniques and advice, but also the theoretical foundations which challenge feminism and other isms which have left so many men unconsciously emasculated and baffled for a solution for their needs. Frank also provides answers to questions which shed light on the state of the inquirer's relationship from both male and female needs as well as practical steps in treating the problem. You receive not only applicable teaching unavailable from the academic relationshipologists and the drivel from pop media, but also commentary on various techniques suggested by other seduction gurus.

-BoneHead in Toronto

This was the first of Frank's recorded seminar series, and I was fortunate enough to attend. It worked the same as any of Frank's other lectures, except that whenever someone coughed Frank had to repeat himself.

The topic of this seminar was the rules for the first 10 lays with a new lover, though several of the rules are pretty good ideas in general. To anyone familiar with Frank's books, most of the rules are pretty obvious extensions of the emotional needs of women.

The most important of these rules was the rule to avoid predictability, and this was the major theme of the second half of the lecture. Frank detailed several interesting and 'sneaky' ways of making a lasting emotional impact on a woman, and the mindset of the man who can 'make happy accidents'.

The biggest moment for me actually came during one of the breaks. I made a remark to Frank that I couldn't take his advice and have sex on my dining room table because it's made of glass and would break.

"Get rid of it. This is a lifestyle."

Whoa.
-SumYungGi in Toronto

Having known Frank for a while, I've been accustomed to hearing him analyze situations in fairly abstract terms. His emotional needs theories and much of many, MANY teachings are usually somewhat removed from the technical aspects of the situations so that they can be broken down effectively for learning purposes.

This lecture, however, was a pleasant change from the usual as Frank forgoes his usual level of abstraction to talk in very practical terms, laying out one ingenious technique after another, which definitely promises to make the first 10 times with a new lover memorable, to say the least. But in typical Frank style, the value of this lecture does not end there. Presenting material that is generative is almost synonymous with Frank B Kermit and this lecture was no different. Frank presented his 10 rules for keeping the first 10 times exciting and along with the explanation for each of the techniques presented, should provide anyone willing to put in some thought more than enough material to start generating techniques of their own. - Gillette in Toronto

Frank touches on how the Emotional Needs plays its role these cds, but goes well over that to cover a wide and deep range upon the topic. The biggest lesson I learn is being unpredictable when it comes to the new and different sex you can introduce to the girl in order to keep her Emotional Needs satisfied. The other rules are just as important, so your looking into much more than just a few rules here.

Last thing you want to have is your girl cheating behind your back with another man because you can't offer her what she wants. After devouring the material on this cd, I feel much more aware what I have to do as the man of the relationship.

Frank also goes in-depth to why he has each rule and how it applies to having a new lover. Frank also gave some really great advice on what to beware of on this topic.

last but not least, Frank also mentioned a bunch of new experiences you can try with a new lover (and of course, explains how they all apply to the topic).

*I recommend this for everyone. the clarity and all the "ah-ha" moments from absorbing this material are priceless *

-Hayami in Toronto