Faith, Hope, Charity: Hitting The Target

When I hear a tongue confessing “I may have to love you, but I don’t have to like you” my heart becomes saddened. It’s telling me that Jesus’ dying on the cross was in vain. That it doesn’t understand the meaning of faith, hope, and charity. That it, like the Pharisee, only renders a service of the tongue while the heart is far from God. Are you guilty of saying something like that to a fellow saint, and/or someone of acquaintance? If so; what separates your theology and belief from the way of the worlds understanding (world meaning; an unbeliever in Jesus Christ)? If the world witnesses your tongue confessing this; what gives them the inspiration, and or the necessity for a need of salvation in Christ Jesus?