Age happens--then everything else hits the fan. When my father-in-law's life changes overnight, mine does, too. These mostly light-hearted stories offer encouragement to others in a similar situation--past, present or future. See Pop romance the Little Debbie brownies, battle against bathing, and enjoy being the "only rooster in the henhouse." Meet the Old Lady Gang at Mayberry, and Bossy Barb, the elf Santa doesn't talk about. Pop’s stories also candidly describe how he adjusts to communal living, handles his increasing infirmity and his approaching death from pancreatic cancer. We’re all riding the same train, so join us on our simple adventures as we haul ourselves out of the wreckage. (Also available at amazon.com, on Kindle, and at www.barbara-blanks.com)
posting for karla k. morton 09/10/2009 I just wanted to take a moment and tell you how much I am enjoying your Pop's book. It's so honest and open and heartfelt -- and such a loving tribute. Thank you so much for writing this, I know it must be a great comfort to so many people around the world, and reminds me of taking care of my own mother-in-law! Your humor and love abounds. karla k. morton 2010 Texas Poet Laureate
Jan 11-2010 My husband and I have been reading "Out of the Wreckage" (aloud) to each other. Last night we read the last page...wow. Barb is a woman who knows how to touch the heart, tell the truth, and make us laugh. We both appreciate her words and for telling Pop's story. Those few words don't come close to expressing the impact her book had on us. She has that rare ability to weave humor, tears, and frankness into a story we all need to know because [sometime] we will all be in similar positions. However, not everyone has someone in their life to give the love, care, and tenderness she gave to Pop. Thus, she offered a benchmark for us all. Linda Johnson in France
"Out of the Wreckage: The Pop Stories" I read this book yesterday, it was good and well written. I enjoyed most of it..hated the dying part..but did give me a good reason to release some tears..I am not one to normally cry. So because I spent the day reading I didn't do diddly squat the whole day...
"The Pop Stories are a must read--" I was giggling one minute, and sniffling with teary eyes the next. Barb has a way of making you feel like you're right there, and it seemed she had good insight into Pop's feelings. I didn't want it to end and I find myself thinking about Pop, Barb, John, and the residents of Mayberry often. It's quite a lesson in compassion and patience. Gail
"Pop Stories" This is a wonderful compilation of notes posted to a list...a condensed form of something many of us read as it unfolded. Well worth reading and very timely for those of us with elderly parents.
