I've always said that you take the hand your are dealt in life and make a winning one out of it. This had been my motto for 30 years, then my knees gave out and my hands became stiff. I went to several doctors for two years and a specialist diagnosed me with fibromyalgia. I knew I couldn't fold my hand because there was too much in the pot... what I used to do in life, what I want to do , and what I haven't even thought to do yet! I took the mess I was dealt and made it a winning one in the pot of life.