Why is it always about my spots?

A ladybug is not happy that we always talk about her spots.She thinks its annoying and she takes you around to show other spotted animals and nature.But we still like her attractive red color and black spots so she makes a deal that if she flies away that means she feels bothered by us and if she flies to us then she needs to be pampered.So saying in the end she flies away only to see you soon.