2022 HFW

Trauma can have you negotiating your pain from one perspective. Allow yourself to be honest with the situation by facing the truth. Not by past beliefs but by getting a realistic perception of how you feel and what transpired. Today, I looked at a situation that happened to me years ago. Fast forward to today, I analyze the truth with a new aspect that was not clear to me until now. To find out I had the right to be hurt but my views on the situation weren’t accurate. I can't blame others and never acknowledge that I played a big part in it, too. No one will help me heal from this. That’s something I must want for myself. I have to give myself the chance to accept and let go. Letting go isn't forgetting; it's not for them. It's for me. Forgiveness isn't saying it's okay; it's my way of moving on.