Killing Soul-Ties: A Journey to Self-Love and Healthy Relationships" is a heartfelt and vulnerable book written by an author who has experienced both the highs and lows of relationships. Through personal stories and reflections, the author shares the importance of knowing oneself and choosing the right people to build healthy and fulfilling relationships with. The book highlights the pitfalls of entering relationships without truly understanding oneself and the other person. From watching domestic violence on TV to experiencing it in her own life, the author emphasizes the importance of taking the time to get to know someone before committing to a relationship. She encourages readers to be mindful of the red flags that may arise when getting to know someone and to listen to their inner voice when making decisions about who to let into their lives. The author's journey to self-love is a central theme of the book. She shares her personal struggles with self-doubt, shyness, and independence, and how they affected her relationships. By being vulnerable and honest with herself, she was able to heal and grow, finding happiness with her current husband. She encourages readers to love themselves fully, embrace their flaws, and to prioritize their spiritual and emotional well-being. The book is filled with practical advice on how to build and maintain healthy relationships. The author stresses the importance of communication, mutual respect, and compromise in all relationships. She reminds readers that a healthy relationship is a partnership, with each person supporting and uplifting the other. The author also touches on the importance of forgiveness, both of oneself and others, in order to move forward and build stronger relationships. Overall, "Killing Soul-Ties" is a book that will resonate with anyone who has ever struggled with self-love or relationships. It is a raw and authentic account of one person's journey to finding happiness and peace in their personal life. With relatable anecdotes, practical advice, and a message of hope, this book will inspire readers to be their best selves and to build the relationships that they truly deserve. As the author says, "The only compassionate thing I want to say is just love yourself and just know that God loves you and he won't put no more on you than you could bear, and he loves you. He will always be there no matter who else is not in your presence at the time.