It Was Supposed to Be a Visit, Not a Job

It Was Supposed to Be a Visit, Not a Job is a heartfelt, real-life guide for adult children who find themselves slowly—and often unexpectedly—becoming caregivers for their aging parents. Blending personal story, emotional insight, and practical support, author Gina Marie Herrera shares the truth behind what caregiving really feels like: the guilt, the family tension, the burnout, and the deep love that keeps you going even when you're exhausted. This isn’t a medical manual or a how-to checklist. It’s the conversation you didn’t know you needed. The one that reminds you: You’re not alone in this. You’re doing better than you think. You deserve support, too. Whether you’re caring hands-on, from a distance, or somewhere in between, this book will meet you where you are—with honesty, encouragement, and a voice that gets it.