The issue is that so many of us (myself as well) used to think that there is a right way to grieve the death of a loved one. I have learned that this could not be further from the truth. Each person grieves in their own way, at their own speed, for their own length of time. I am very aware that one cannot and should not tell a person how to grieve. But planting a seed can help with your future processing and grieving the death of someone important to you. The seed, once planted, will grow invisible and quietly in you, and you might just find that when you need it the most, it will surface as a strong, ready-to-work idea, no longer a fledgling seed. May the writings in this book be your seeds.