Could you be in a relationship with no sex for Ninety Days?

Some of us often wonder why we are unsuccessful in the love and relationship aspects of lives. It almost as if we repeat the same mistakes over and over again with the same type of men or women playing the exact same roles in our lives and achieving the same results out of those relationship. One can wonder why it is the way it is? We have been conditioned to copy the examples that have provided by our parents. They have laid down the foundation for our future love lives. We unconsciously step into their roles and relationship habits. It may not be an exact copy but it is a carbon copy of their relationship blueprint and template. We learn how to live and love from our mothers and fathers as well as our immediate friends and family. And once we become adults we carry those experiences into our future relationships. At some point we have to sit back and analyze how we enter into and develop new loving involvements with mates and lovers. A pattern forms and we mold into it over time. Some of us develop good patterns while others adapt to dysfunction. Once we recognize the jig saw puzzle that is making up our personality and how we relate with our significant others. Some of us are unable to distinguish negative aspects about ourselves that can affect the outcome of serious committed associations with our lovers. Sometimes we must search our souls in an effort to find ourselves. In order to do this you may have to disconnect your feelings and emotions from your sexual physical wants and needs to clear your mind completely of carnal desires. The best time to do this is after ending a committed relationship and before starting a new one. This will allow you to enter new affiliations with potential lovers without bringing the baggage of past affairs into new interactions. Once your mind, body, and soul are free of past burdens you can open up your heart to new possibilities. Your objective now is to create a new level of intimacy.