Shipmates First: Bridging the Divide Through the Power of Relational Repair What happens when a deep-seated conflict threatens a bond between two people who couldn’t be more different? In a world increasingly divided, "Shipmates First" offers a powerful, real-life map for navigating the stormy waters of human connection. Set aboard Delaware’s majestic tall ship, KALMAR NYCKEL, this book follows a true story of relationship, rupture, and repair—proving that even the deepest differences can be bridged when we prioritize our shared humanity. Through the lens of Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB), you’ll discover how "presence creates possibility." Learn how a safe connection with a "shipmate first" allowed for a transformative apology that recalibrated two nervous systems and turned a painful rupture into a sturdier, more resilient bond. Structured around the wise guidance of Della the IPNB Ladybug™, this volume combines detailed watercolor illustrations of life aboard with clear, easy-to-understand IPNB principles. Whether you are a sailor or simply someone who cares about the quality of your relationships, this book is an invitation to move beyond defense and into a life-changing practice of repair. Discover the "relational medicine" your nervous system has been waiting for.