Arjay's writing explores the boundaries where spirituality and sexuality meet; and to uncover the complexity of darker desires such as subjugation and pain. His knowledge of tantra, and how intimacy can restore and uplift the spirit, provides a unique and insightful lens on sexual relations where there is an apparent imbalance. This is essential reading for students of tantra looking to explore beyond its traditional boundaries, and fetishists of all interests looking for an understanding and compelling voice. Interspersed are works of tender romance, uncompromising sensuality and a warm, earthy sense of humour.