Finally, understand --and shift-- what's kept you and your lover/partner on an endless seesaw of frustration and heartbreak. Find out what keeps the same unfulfilling patterns in place in our love lives. (Therapists: great tool for you as well!) Learn the Timeless 12: Love Lessons, Lover Arche"types"/duos, Games, and Ideals each couple unconsciously strives for. Learn a new paradigm for resolving conflicts, a novel new theory balanced with gentle humor and advice. Feel inspired, not defeated. Author testimony, praise from her mentors, as well as professional and lay friends is provided.