“Train Them or Blame Yourself is the parenting book the church has needed and too few have been willing to write. With the warmth of a trusted pastor and the precision of a gifted teacher, Adedotun Agbojo dismantles both the harshness of performance-driven parenting and the permissiveness of love without structure — and builds in their place a vision of the covenant home that is biblically uncompromising and practically achievable. This is not a book about perfect parenting. It is a book about purposeful parenting — and the God who redeems every gap between the two. Across seven theologically grounded, pastorally warm, and immediately actionable chapters, readers will discover what it means to be not merely a parent but a steward: deliberate in formation, honest in accountability, resilient in the long game, and anchored in the unshakeable confidence that God has not abandoned the child He placed in their care. Whether you are in the early years of raising children or in the long years of praying for prodigals, this book will anchor you, equip you, and send you back to your home with renewed purpose and restored faith. Essential. Urgent. Deeply needed.”