First of the Multiple Unexpected Occasions

What happens when you are trying for years to get your wife to open up and do a threesome with another man and then you see a sparkle in her eyes when you meet a new guy in town at a networking event. Then you find out a bit later that she has been with him without your being present. When you are included you see that she is more than happy to be with him with or without you. Does, "Be careful of what you wish for"ring a bell?