What happens when loving someone begins to cost you your identity? Don’t Lose You is a compassionate and practical guide for women who want to love deeply without becoming smaller, quieter, or disconnected from themselves. Through honest reflections and relatable examples, Glory Aston explores how self-abandonment can appear in relationships—from overthinking and seeking constant reassurance to neglecting friendships, postponing personal goals, tolerating repeated patterns, and making one person the centre of your emotional world. Inside, you will learn how to: • understand why being chosen can feel connected to your self-worth • communicate your needs without guilt • create and maintain healthy boundaries • recognise the difference between chemistry, attachment, and emotional safety • rebuild trust in yourself after heartbreak • maintain your friendships, ambitions, independence, and identity while in love • choose healthier relationships without becoming emotionally unavailable This is not a book about loving less or pretending that you do not need anyone. It is about building relationships where love and self-respect can exist together. Whether you are single, dating, in a relationship, healing from an ending, or trying to feel more secure in yourself, Don’t Lose You will remind you that being loved should never require abandoning the person you are.