The lives of Pastor’s wives seem pristine and picture perfect. The Pastor’s wife occupies a place of being a quiet and perfect fixture in the church that brings the church congregation a comforting stability. When the wife of the Pastor is happy, the life of the church seems happy. Or is she really happy? It is easy having a title that says “first”, but it is difficult battling the reality of always being last. This book is inspired by the true reality of living as a Pastor’s wife. Pastors and congregations, be gentle with your first lady. She is carrying a cross that everyone is not called and anointed to bear.