Behind Every Argument Is Something Worth Understanding. We don't fight because we want to hurt each other. We fight because we're protecting something: our hearts, our worth, our past, our children, our future. Behind the Armor™ is a powerful, faith-centered workbook that helps individuals and couples uncover the hidden reasons behind their reactions, break unhealthy cycles, and build a relationship rooted in emotional safety, trust, and intentional connection. Through the ARMOR™ framework, Awareness, Reaction, Meaning, Origin, and Repair, you'll learn to replace protection with partnership and build a relationship that lasts. Twelve chapters move you from understanding yourself, to understanding each other, to becoming a team, each one built around a guided mapping exercise, a faith reflection, and practical steps you can start using the same week. Whether you're single, dating, engaged, married, or starting over, this workbook will help you move from survival to connection. A workbook for individuals and couples.