No More Situationships: How to Attract Commitment Without Playing Games At some point, you got tired of trying to make it make sense. The mixed signals. The almost-relationships. The conversations that felt real—but never led anywhere solid. You kept telling yourself to be patient. To give it time. To not overthink it. But deep down, you knew something wasn’t right. This book is for that moment. Because situationships don’t just “happen.” They build slowly—when inconsistency gets explained away, when your standards get flexible, and when you stay in something hoping it will eventually become what it’s not. And the longer you stay, the harder it is to step back. This Book Will Help You See Things Clearly—While You’re In Them Not after. Not when it’s already over. While you’re in it. You’ll learn how to: Spot inconsistency early, before you get pulled in Stop overthinking behavior that’s already telling you everything Recognize hot-and-cold patterns for what they are Stop explaining away red flags Set boundaries that actually change your experience Raise your standards without feeling like you’re “doing too much” This Isn’t About Playing It Better It’s not about texting the right way. It’s not about timing things perfectly. It’s not about figuring someone out. It’s about paying attention to what’s already in front of you—and responding differently. That’s what changes everything. A Perspective Grounded in Real Life Written by a registered nurse, ordained pastor, wife, and mother, this book is shaped by real conversations, real patterns, and real-life experience. It’s not heavy. It’s not preachy. It’s honest, practical, and easy to apply—whether you come from a faith background or not. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking: “What are we actually doing?” “Why does this feel so unclear?” “Am I overthinking this… or is something off?” You’re not alone. But you don’t have to stay there. No more guessing. No more trying to make confusion feel normal. No more situationships. It starts with clarity. And what you decide to do with it.