What happens when a woman who has been married half her life steps into the modern dating world appearing to be broken, but hopeful, and completely unprepared? Choose Peace Over Potential chronicles the messy, beautiful, and brutally honest journey of rebuilding after a twenty-year marriage ends. Through twenty+ dates in only three years, she navigates attention that feels like affection, chemistry that is disguised as chaos, and soul ties that linger long after the men disappear! But beyond the heartbreaks and almost-loves lies a deeper story: a woman rediscovering her identity, reclaiming her standards, and learning to choose herself above all else. Poignant, relatable, and fiercely empowering, this memoir is a roadmap for anyone healing from divorce, untangling old patterns, or learning to love again & starting with themselves.