A true story about Scotland Douglas (“Scotty”) McArthur and his family from when his parents were married until his son Matthew was born forty years later. Scotty has lived two lives. The first was in a toxic and broken family through his first nearly twenty years of life that almost caused him to commit suicide at age twelve. After struggling to overcome deep-rooted fears of dating, marriage, and family norms, his unexpected second life began at age twenty-five after he met his wife-to-be, Melissa; a complete reversal of his first life which continues to the present day.