Some boys are told to be strong. Very few are told what strength actually means. Advice to Sons: Letters on Strength, Softness and Becoming is a collection of letters written for Boys aged 11-16 - letters about emotions, friendships, identity, pressure, and growing up. Written in the honest, warm voice of an older sister, each letter gives Boys permission to feel , to struggle, and to become. This is not a parenting book. It is not a rulebook. It is a conversation - the kind Boys rarely get to have. The kind that says: you are allowed to not have it all figured out. Each letter ends with reflection questions and space to think - making this book interactive as it is meaningful For every boy who has ever felt confused, quiet, left out, or unsure of himself - this one is for you.