An architect, who realised that reading complicated works analytically, or deconstruction, in a word, to simplify current works, so that effort and time is saved, is something that could be applied to life itself, so that every situation ceases to surprise, or jar, unnecessarily, that is, beyond a point that leads to stress. Deconstructing, or De-stressing any situation is therefore a skill that is greatly desirable, and while not an easy thing to do, is most certainly something that can be done, if one chooses not to give up the daily battle the mind dares one to fight. And, since sanity is highly rated (and also something that one tends to take for granted, leading to the disaster called depression), I find rationalising my way out of possible dangers a task that's absolutely worth the effort.