A Message for Hesitant Parents: “Is Martial Arts Right for My Child?” If you’re reading this, chances are you’re not looking for just another activity for your child. You may be worried about confidence, bullying, emotional outbursts, lack of focus at school, or your child giving up when things feel difficult. You might also be wondering whether martial arts is too aggressive, too intense, or simply not “them”. These concerns are completely understandable.