You can love deeply without putting yourself last. Do you say yes before checking what you need? Feel guilty setting boundaries? Give so much to a relationship that your own life starts to disappear? Love Is Selfish: How to Love Deeply Without Losing Yourself is a practical guide to people-pleasing, self-respect and healthier boundaries in love and marriage. Inspired by real-life relationships and everyday challenges, this practical guide explores how to love deeply while respecting your own needs. Through the stories of four couples, it examines dating, long-term commitment and difficult goodbyes. Inside, you’ll learn how to: • Recognize your own answer before automatically saying yes. • Set boundaries with honesty and personal responsibility. • Share money, time and the invisible mental load more fairly. • Distinguish a difficult season from an unhealthy recurring pattern. • Examine whether to stay or leave without judging yourself. • Recover after a breakup and approach love again with clearer expectations. With 14 practical exercises and a 30-day practice, this book helps you turn reflection into everyday action. For anyone who has ever been called selfish for needing rest, space or a voice of their own. Love deeply. Never disappear.