When Parents Leave
Your Life Blew Up and You're Still Supposed to Get to Third Period Like Nothing Happened
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When Parents Leave is a straight-talking guide for teens whose home life has changed, cracked, or completely blown up—and who are still expected to show up at school like everything is normal.
Written for ages 13–17, this book explains what can happen when parents leave, fight, drink, fall apart, or put kids in the middle. It breaks down fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses in plain language, explores the pressure to keep everyone happy, and helps teens understand why they may feel angry, numb, anxious, exhausted, or responsible for things that were never theirs to fix.
There are no lectures and no clinical jargon. Instead, readers get practical tools for handling overwhelming emotions, setting boundaries with parents, navigating relationships and consent, coping without turning to substances, staying safer online, and building a future that does not have to repeat the past.
Warm, direct, sometimes funny, and never preachy, When Parents Leave is the kind of book that says what a hurting kid may need to hear most: you did not cause the chaos, you are not responsible for fixing the adults, and what happened at home does not get the final say in who you become.
Details
- Publication Date
- Sep 17, 2026
- Language
- English
- Category
- Young Adult
- Copyright
- All Rights Reserved - Standard Copyright License
- Contributors
- By (author): Mindy Whitaker Mingo
Specifications
- Format
Keywords
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