“How can I make this worse for you?” is far more than a question. It reflects the attitude of a dominant who is looking to escalate – looking at the current state of a scene and considering what they can do to make it a little worse for the sub. Of course, by “Worse”, I really mean: “Harder, more painful, more challenging, more frustrating --- and more enjoyable”! This book is focused on the intent to drive a partner deeper into their helplessness, and ultimately, increase the pleasure of the activity for both partners. As the song goes, “You have to be cruel to be kind…in the right measure”.